At that time I will be 15 or 16 years old, when I start liking one girl in my relatives. I was in my relatives’ home and was not ready to come to my home due to her. But I had to come back as my matriculation exams were approaching. I came to home but my heart was not with the routine tasks and I failed in the exams as well. I could not complete my any of the tasks and my all routine was disturbed. When I grew 20 years, I came across my same cousin and expressed my feelings but she rejected me badly and afterwards we never came to each other’s place. I still see her red eyes and my home members are worried of my issue. (Rana Tariq)
Famous philosopher Socrates has said that whenever you see at other, first see at yourself and your own worth. You need to asses one thing that what value you posses and what is your worth. You could not complete your studies as well and your life has stopped the progress. You need to focus on your achievements and make yourself worthy enough to be valued in eyes of others.
Now no one is happy:
I am 16 years old and my matriculation exams are approaching. I am totally unfocussed as my father passed away some time back and I was the most loved person of my family and had affinity with father being a younger child of the family. Now I am very worried and not in a good shape. ( Arshad Ali- Karachi)
As your father death has 3 years passed and you are worried for his absence. You need to share your problem with someone. Your home mates are also suffering the same problem; you may share the sorrow with each other and do some catharsis for the solution of this mental problem. If the problem is still persistent, then you may consult with some psychiatrist.
He hoodwinked:
I had one friend to whom I gave some amount of money for the business and investment purpose and now he is flown to abroad and cheated me. After this incident I am very much disturbed and not in opposition to do something productive. I find no one a trustworthy and do not go for any job as well. The trust of people has gone out of my heart. I do not know what people think about me. My parents do not give me due attention and siblings are not interested as well.
You need to come back to your routine life. One person has cheated you and takes it as a lesson in your life and go ahead with some care. But do not detach yourself from the society as all the people in the world are not alike. You need to start from somewhere with positive attitude in order to prosper in the life. Do not care of the people what they think about you. Just stay positive and try to trust yourself instead of others.
Marriage hindered:
My marriage ( Nikkah) was done with my maternal uncle’s daughter with the consent of my father. But now my paternal relatives are not ready for this marriage to be completed and they want to end it. I am very much worried and residing in my father in law’s home. ( Siddique- Rawalpindi)
As your Nikkah has been conducted and she is your wife by all laws. I do not know why she was not sent prpoperly with you at that time. Anyhow, when nikkah was done all your parents were agreed. Now you need to complete the marriage contract.
